Originally Posted by Isabella

Okay here is my 2 cents worth...after Columbine; the “experts” advised parents to spy on their children. We were told to know everything that goes on with your children. Afterwards, I started searching my child's room almost weekly. He had NetNanny on his computer, so I would check the log quite often. We never had any trouble with our child. We tried to set a good example for him by not doing the following things, drinking, smoking, and using profanity. He never knew I checked his room out. You have to stay a step ahead of your children, so if they do something wrong, you can address it immediately.

Tbelle, my child is almost finished with college and My Space was not around when he was living at home, but if it was I would certainly check it out. His NetNanny would shut it down if bad language was on the page. LOL. Perhaps you need to install something like it on your computer. It works very well.

Originally Posted by Texasbelle

Listen up *********, there is a difference between parenting and manipulation. Learn it. You know I guess none of us never really thought about the reason why you aren't a parent. There has to be two willing people to engage, ya know? Who in the heck would be willing with someone like you with that attitude?????????

Originally Posted by Texasbelle

First you have to have the opportunity to use that birth control don't ya?

Originally Posted by Texasbelle

Isabella, that was a great post! I do have a program installed! Brain read a whole lot more into what I said that is so incorrect, but if he wants to be that stupid and make such assumptions about false identities, then ASSume away! He will never be on the same page as the rest of us. He is what he is. I will do my job as a parent and ensure that my children are safe and well behaved. I can't help it if Brain doesn't get it.

Originally Posted by Texasbelle

How do I get to look at their space? I can never tell my secret in public on the board!!!;) But let's suffice it to say the kids should pay more attention to who they make their "friend"!:laugh:

Originally Posted by BrainSmashR

Seems to me IF you don't know your child well enough to know that he's using drugs, OR has access to firearms, OR is extremely anti-social, then maybe NEGLECT is what's wrong with the boy in the first damn place!

Originally Posted by BrainSmashR

Seems to me IF you don't know your child well enough to know that he's using drugs, OR has access to firearms, OR is extremely anti-social, then maybe NEGLECT is what's wrong with the boy in the first damn place!

Originally Posted by joepole

>He never knew I checked his room out.

Yes, he did.

Originally Posted by BrainSmashR

Ok, I'll give you that one. I AM operating on an assumption here.



You wanna clarify that statement, or cut the bull****, because I'm pretty sure that means you are using an account other than your own, which complies with the MySpace terms of service, to spy on them....

Originally Posted by Isabella

Brainy, I know my son very well. He has a 3.9 grade average and this is his senior year in college. He was valedictorian when he graduated from high school. He will be going to pharmacy school or medical school. He and his wonderful sweet innocent beautiful girlfriend are at my home everyday. I can tell what he does, also by his choice in friends. There are no tattoos and piercings on these kids. They are interested in their education and working out in the gym. My child is definitely not neglected or anti-social! You only wish you could have the life my son has!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You noticed that pretty new truck lately?