Dating - Men Choose Pretty Women - Women Are Choosier
 

Science is confirming what most women know: When given the choice for a mate, men go for good looks.

Then they must be idiots. A homely looking person can be have a better personally. I would choose that over looks any day.

Every body likes a pretty package, but a pretty package with brains and heart is the best. A smart man looks for what's inside the package not the wrappings.

I only look what is in her heart :rolleyes: or maybe what is over her heart too :D

Not necessarily. Those wrappings can reveal a great deal about the person too if your perception and judge of character is any good. With your rationale, you obviously agree that physical appearance is no indication of personality. If so, the reverse should be equally true.

For example, I would definitely wanna see a picture of a girl I meet online or through a friend before asking her out. Why? Because if she is wearing all black, with numerous piercings throughout her face, and ghost-white skin (an extreme Goth), SORRY! You are definitely NOT my type. Or, if the girl dresses excessively trampy and looks like a California prostitute, you are not my type.

I'm not picky as far as physical appearance, but I won't force myself to date someone I am simply not attracted to, be it over their appearance or personality. There are criteria within both that would cause me to rule out a potential date.

Personality is important too (a fact many people underestimate), but it is no reason to entirely ignore physical appearance, presentability, and general visual impressions.

Besides all of that, I have heard of women who choose their men based on their financial class, their lifestyle, and even their wardrobe. Therefore, women are just as guilty as men at ignoring personality.

>A smart man looks for what's inside the package not the wrappings.

A smart man looks for both. Good looks are just as important as anything else.

Luckily, my wife doesn't follow this plan.

I just hope that one day women can look past this perfectly sculpted face and this body of a greek god and see the inner LSU, i'am very compassionate and have many deep feelings, i am not just some sex object for women to gawk over!;)

So everybody, for those who are in a relationship ...what did attract you to your spouse first?

Olive skin and those big brown eyes :eyeball::eyeball: oh and that curve yes the female curve.

Blue eyes, nice lips, over the top personality (not all could handle) and intelligence!:D

Her ability to tolerate me.

For me, it was Mr. Belle's sweet personality, he's tall, and very handsome! He was also willing to take on a single mom with children and love them as his own. It takes a very special man to do that.

No way. Single moms are the best because you know they put out.

So I take it you are married to a girl that had children before and you went in the second round draft private Pyle :rolleyes:
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Hey Romeo it must be your brains because it sure ain't your looks. :laugh::laugh:

Your true spots are showing you dawg. Whoof,Whoof :D

The hilarious thing is I have shaved my head a couple of times in my life and when I did I looked EXACTLY like Private Pyle.

The very first thing.. given it's someone you have not met before.. not someone from school, or someone from work, that you get to know first.. it's usually the looks.. after that, I'd say it has to be personality, compatibility etc.. for the relationship to last. I'm sure I had my eyes on my better half, before she had her eyes on me.. I played the game, and tried to be entertaining as possible :) .. Then after awhile... it's like the song says "Gettin' up the nerve.... is a man's job" :cool:

LOL I know I got the better deal LMAO :yes:

:gosaints:

Seems like more often than not, the ones we want, dont want us, and the ones that want us, we dont want. Everyone usually wants what they cant have when it comes to love.

You love her
But she loves him
And he loves somebody else
Ya just can't win
And so it goes
Till the day you die
This thing they call love
It's gonna make you cry
I've had the blues
The reds and the pinks
One thing's for sure
Love stinks
Love stinks yeah yeah

:cool:

Tbelle, I've been married nearly 25 years, that's a quarter century to one woman and one woman only. Bingo, you hit the bulleye. "Looks" had me like a spell. I was 18, she was 15... She looked like Farrah Faucet Majors. I've been a slave to love ever since.....

Yeah she'd gained a few pounds since then (cough cough) but I can still see the Farrah Faucet every time I see her. However now that I've had a few decades to get to know her, things change. LOL, a couple of kids will do that to ya..... I have found that personality counts for more and more and looks count less and less, especially while I hone my parental skills. In both regards, I do have my standards and limits. But I'm open minded. What was your question? :D

Your description of me is uncanny! :duck:

But alas, you probably like blonds over balding brunettes................

Well Rhertz the good news is most all men go thin on top eventually. Your peers will eventually catch up. Some (Neo , Isaac) sooner rather than later!!!:laugh::laugh::laugh:

Well even though Mr. P is a blonde turning gray I still like it! It matches his goatee!:laugh:

Carpet/Drapes :laugh::laugh: need to be color coordinated :D

I prefer bare wood floors to carpet.

Might want to run a sander over that floor before hand so you will get those nasty splinters out.

A bit off topic but still close enough
 

Men Are Just Happier People

What do you expect from such simple creatures? Your last name
stays put. The garage is all yours. Wedding plans take care of
themselves. Chocolate is just another snack. You can be President. You
can never be pregnant. You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park, or
you can wear NO shirt to a water park. Car mechanics tell you the truth.

The world is your urinal. You never have to drive to another gas
station restroom because this one is just too icky. You don't have to
stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt. Same work, more
pay. Wrinkles add character. Graying hair adds attraction. Wedding
dress~$5000. Tux rental~$100. People never stare at your chest when
you're talking to them. The occasional well-rendered belch is
practically expected. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your
feet.
One mood all the time. Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.
You know stuff about tanks. A five-day vacation requires only one
suitcase. You can open all your own jars. You get extra credit for the
slightest act of thoughtfulness. If someone forgets to invite you, he or
she can still be your friend. Your underwear is $8.95 for a three-pack.
Three pairs of shoes are more than enough. You almost never have strap
problems in public. You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes.
Everything on your face stays its original color. The same hairstyle
lasts for years, maybe decades. You only have to shave your face and
neck. You can play with toys all your life. Your belly usually hides
your big hips. One wallet and one pair of shoes one color for all
seasons. You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look. You can "do"
your nails with a pocket knife. You have freedom of choice concerning
growing a mustache. You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on
December 24 in 25 minutes.

Sounds like a very boring life to me!

Because ? You are very high maintenance :rolleyes: Yea I know men for the most part can not live without a woman to spend their money :p

LOL word up dawg :yes:

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Joepole's creed:

This is my pole. There are many like it but this one is mine. My pole is my best friend. It is my life. I must master it as I must master my life. Without me, my pole is useless. Without my pole I am useless. I must fire my pole true......

:rotflol::rotflol::rotflol::rotflol::rotflol:

I'm sure most of you have seen this before...........
 

Recently, a popular womens magazine polled its readership and asked "What do you want in a man?" They then organized the results and published the common themes based on age groups, and here's what they found.
http://www.rickroot.com/images/girl20s.gifWomen in their early 20s:

1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer thing
9. Full of thoughtful surprises
10. An imaginative, romantic lover

http://www.rickroot.com/images/girl30s.gifWomen in their early 30s:

1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week

http://www.rickroot.com/images/girl40s.gifWomen in their early 40s:

1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends

http://www.rickroot.com/images/girl50s.gifWomen in their early 50s:

1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't retell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends

http://www.rickroot.com/images/girl60s.gifWomen in their early 60s:

1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend

http://www.rickroot.com/images/girl70s.gifWomen in their early 70s:

1. Breathing
2. Doesn't miss the toilet.

Sure is nice to have their SS and pension when the old fart is down on his knees. ;)

[quote=Isaac-Saxxon;20849]Men Are Just Happier People


One mood all the time.


:rotflol::rotflol::rotflol::rotflol::rotflol:

[quote=Pocahontas;20891] That is right Pokie one mood all the time not like females on their hormonal elevator ride. Never know which floor they are on :rolleyes:

Men have as many moods as we do and believe me I KNOW!!;)

Nice to see you back, Scarlett! :D That reminds me of an old joke about the various stages of the female lifecycle.

1. To grow up.
2. To fill out.
3. To slim down.
4. To hell with it.

;)

I think I'd keep that quiet!:eek:
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Yeah, but she sure can cook!
 

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he married her and then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you


Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

[Spoken:]
Say man!
Hey baby!
I saw your wife the other day!
Yeah?
Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee!
Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you