so i'm waiting
O.k., I've been watching this group closely. Desperately hoping to see some clue as to what's the SECRET TO A HAPPY HOME is ? :-)
I got plenty of questions for this disfunctional family I got runnin' around here! But I ain't gonna be the first to ask :) Bob. |
I never said that I know the secret to a Happy Home. That is what this group is about - how to achieve a happy home. I don't think there is "a secret" to a happy home, or else everyone would do that one thing and be happy. Life is much more complex and less boring than that. Your post made me laugh. If there is a single thing that makes a happy home, it is laughter. Please share your ideas or questions for a happy home.
For every post with an idea of how to maintain a happy home, I will do the same. For example, the next time you come home, ask your family “how was your day?” You might be surprised by the answers and post them here!! |
A home without alcohol use, drug use, and profanity will produce a happy home. Parents who set a good example for their children by always being truthful, considerate to others, respect the laws and people of authority, listening to their children, and being an involved parent are ingredients to a happy home.
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All true Isabella. When it comes down to a happy home, I would also include "love". A loved child is generally a happy child. If a child does not love him or herself, a child cannot be happy.
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The secret to a happy home............. put God first in your lives but understand there is no perfect home. having a happy home takes work and of course sometimes things happen that are out of our control. ex: divorce, money problems etc. All we can do is all work together in a family to try and keep it running smooth but in a perfect world we all know how that goes.
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I agree
Disfunction is what allows us to realize when thing are going right. Just try to build on that.
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I find that I am happier when I am not watching TV or posting on forums.
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However, watch the idiot box with friends.. or post on website with 'friends' and it makes for a better experience. :) |
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can be a good thing. I would like to know something. Is your line from the Far Side ? "Up stairs the band was playin' and the singer was singin' somethin' 'bout going home" |
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Maybe the answer is to NOT get a dysfunctional family in the first place.
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Well, ok, nothing is EVER 100% under our control...but consider this...if you've been married more than once (many of us have, including myself), you've probably come to the conclusion that you KNEW your ex was a bad choice from the getgo, but you married him/her anyway. This was my own personal experience..I settled, for one reason or another. But what if you had delayed engaging in an intimate relationship and having children until you knew in your heart of hearts that you had found the right person for you? The kind of marriage that only death could end. So, there you are, married to your soulmate, and you and said soulmate have children. Those children will grow up in a home with two parents that love each other, so they'll be well-adjusted. Sounds like the makings of a functional fam to me. The alternative is, you get married for all the wrong reasons, have children, get divorced, now your kids have problems, and both parents most likely re-marry and end up in blended families (which we all KNOW are problematic even under the best of circumstances).
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A dysfunctional home is one that has run out of fresh roasted coffee.....
A Happy Home is one with lots of Japanese Maples in the yard..... :D |
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Never to late to try
I have been married for 23 years with three daughters that have there
problems but over all are good kids. I have found that keeping "Christ" in our conversation and reading the Bible works great. It is work to keep the family on right path. The Word is like Manna you must keep going to it and read it to have all the blessings from God. I took my vows to my wife in a Christian ceremony and I pray every day for my children and my wife (soul mate) and we have ruff times but still going strong and the children still doing the same. Religion and church are not the same as reading the Word and praying. This is free and works great ! God Bless Isaac-Saxxon |
Now I know the facts :-)
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down by the river ... Outside of politics we dont here from Bruce much I guess he has not released any new music ? Still sounds like a line from a Far Side joke ? Thanks Isaac-Saxxon |
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Am I gettin' old.. yea :-) is Bruce gettin' old, yea he is. If you haven't heard anything from Bruce in awhile, it's because of the sad state of affairs that is current Radio in this town and across the country. Same can be said for many successful artists, who still put out albums and still tour to sell out crowds, but be damned if you EVER hear them on the radio anymore. |
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And better late than never! Sometimes it is hard to do it all, but I was doing it all anyway. Now I am happy and doing it all. The end of my long marriage was the beginning of a much more fulfilling life. Some things just aren't worth saving. |
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