I think that no means no wife or not. It's always best when both parties are in the mood. When one isn't (usually the wife) it's not so good anyway. I'm guessing the women on Oprah (didn't see it) probably felt more emotionally raped by their husbands than the actual physical act.
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"The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain."
Jennifer Aniston
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