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Originally Posted by Texasbelle
Sheba, yes in my life I have been on the receiving end of the abuse. No, it was not to the depth this child has endured. I have witnessed much abuse of others as well. Everyone will have their own perspective on this but from my very personal experience with it I can say that it can be overcome. This child should not automatically be labeled a disaster and a future expense to the taxpayers. Yes, he is going to have scars that will daily remind him of what he endured but given all of the right circumstances in the upcoming future they can also remind him and everyone around him of what can be overcome.
I also disagree that the bucket always has a hole. I could walk around everyday feeling very sorry for myself, but through a whole lot of love, patience, perserverance, and strong will I don't. I made the choice to look at my whole life as a cup that is half full. This child deserves the chance to accomplish the same thing and hopefully no one is standing around him saying "You're doom and scarred from here on out." Those are not the words he needs. He will face his scars, his wounds, and all that he has endured. And yes, he can go forward to a world of joy.
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TB, we both see the positive and agree that he can get there. I think the difference is that I see a long road ahead. The bucket is just an word picture of this point in his life. He's been locked in a cage and shocked with a collar. That doesn't just go away. Most of those posting see that long road, too.
But believe me, I know hope! I live it everyday!! That's why my prayers are that the right people cross his path to help him have healing.