It is very unfortunate that we have a few of these bad teachers and bad mothers! For the most part I feel the majority of teachers and mothers are good and doing the best they can! It's not very often that you read about the heroic teachers and moms. It's just not titillating enough for the media!
Moms and teachers are among some of the most unappreciated jobs but we do it because we love it not for notoriety!