Dating - Men Choose Pretty Women - Women Are Choosier

[Huldah]

You have got to be kidding me.

If your talking "first date" men almost always start with looks, usually skinny female with large breasts. Women aren't much less shallow.
When you are talking about back when we were young and single, we all looked for great looks first and then hoped that that person had all the other good qualities that we wanted as well.

Tell me if I'm wrong.

I grant you that when we matured a little and started looking for someone to have children with and spend the rest of our lives with, we came to our senses and started looking for the more important qualities.

Personally, I think that my husband is one of the best around, but not because I was looking, but because God blessed me with him. And for my sake, God blessed my husband with patience kindness and slightly blurred vision.

Cheers,