Woman killed in shootout between her husband and lover

sbl_admin · 04-02-2007, 11:26 AM

A Shreveport woman was killed when she got caught in the middle of a shootout between her lover and her estranged husband

AnimeSpirit · 04-02-2007, 01:18 PM

Death is certainly a high price for infidelity. It just goes to show you that NOTHING good can come out of being an disloyal spouse. If, for whatever reason, you can't remain perfectly loyal to your partner, then you should NOT be married.

joepole · 04-02-2007, 01:49 PM

Lots of good can come out of being a disloyal spouse. You could, for instance, meet somebody better.

AnimeSpirit · 04-02-2007, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by joepole

Lots of good can come out of being a disloyal spouse. You could, for instance, meet somebody better.

Are you saying that you would honestly condone your wife cheating on you because she is looking for someone better than you? I would take it as a personal insult in more ways than one.

Let's take a hypothetical couple to mind for a moment. Let's say the wife began cheating on her husband because she was interested in looking for someone new. This act is despicable, nuf said! Why? Because if you are interested in looking for someone new, then you should NOT be in a serious relationship with someone else, much less married. When you commit to a relationship, you are agreeing to be loyal. However, let's say this nameless wife did find someone new who was, by any definition of the term, better. How can this new partner be sure that his newfound love would be more loyal to him when she now has a history of infidelity?

joepole · 04-02-2007, 04:09 PM

No, I would not condone that, but I can recognize that lots of good can come from being a disloyal spouse. What if I sort of like my wife, but start cheating on her and find a woman I really, really love? Wouldn't that be some good coming from being a disloyal spouse?

Isaac-Saxxon · 04-02-2007, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by joepole

No, I would not condone that, but I can recognize that lots of good can come from being a disloyal spouse. What if I sort of like my wife, but start cheating on her and find a woman I really, really love? Wouldn't that be some good coming from being a disloyal spouse?

I should say are you married and does your wife read these post ? I know that would throw gas on the fire at my house

Big TIME

I have heard it said that when a married couple breaks up that it effects 25-50 people on both sides of the family and the kids pay a very high price. Someone would be better off with their porn and Miss Rosie than cheating on a mate.

Isaac

rhertz · 04-02-2007, 04:40 PM

I think that if someone wants to "cheat" they should first get a divorce then wait at least 3-6 months or more before diving into new relationship. There would be two benefits to this. First it would lessen the impact on family members as Issac points out, and two, it might make something think twice in the future about making the very same mistake twice. It also might make someone think twice before pulling a trigger.

AnimeSpirit · 04-02-2007, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by joepole

No, I would not condone that, but I can recognize that lots of good can come from being a disloyal spouse. What if I sort of like my wife, but start cheating on her and find a woman I really, really love? Wouldn't that be some good coming from being a disloyal spouse?

Perhaps, but this pursuit proved fatal for the woman in this article. I wouldn't think it was worth it. The dishonor, the pain, and in this case death.

Al Swearengen · 04-02-2007, 06:05 PM

Maybe now these two boys will see that she wasnt worth it. Nobody is! I speak from experience, and I'm here to tell ya nobody is worth it! Hear me now and believe me later when I tell ya that nobody is worth it. Now shes takin a dirtnap. The cuckolded husband is the real victim here.

Texasbelle · 04-02-2007, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Al Swearengen

Maybe now these two boys will see that she wasnt worth it. Nobody is! I speak from experience, and I'm here to tell ya nobody is worth it! Hear me now and believe me later when I tell ya that nobody is worth it. Now shes takin a dirtnap. The cuckolded husband is the real victim here.

There is more than one victim in this case. There are three families that are victimized now, but one more so than the others. Somebody has lost a daughter, sister, niece, granddaughter, and perhaps a mother. It was not worth it for anyone to cheat and it never is.

JoePole, I find myself hoping that your wife finds this board if you truly believe what you have typed. And once she reads it, I hope her wrath has no measure for you. If you don't like her, leave. Walk now. SHE DESERVES THE OPPORTUNITY TO FIND SOMEONE BETTER THAN YOU.

Isaac-Saxxon · 04-03-2007, 07:15 AM

How would you feel if you caught your wife trying out a new husband just to see if you are up to par ??

Isaac

Texasbelle · 04-03-2007, 08:23 AM

You know marriages are not like shoes. You don't get to keep trying them on until you find a good fit. And then you don't get to through one away once you think it is a little worn, or you dont like something about it. Marriage is/should be for life. I do know, having experienced it, that there are circumstances which warrant divorce but to think you can take it lightly is absurd, irresponsible, and heartless.

joepole · 04-03-2007, 09:33 AM

Why would I care of my wife found out that I said that it is possible for good to come out of being a disloyal spouse? I'm sure she would agree.

AnimeSpirit · 04-03-2007, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by joepole

Why would I care of my wife found out that I said that it is possible for good to come out of being a disloyal spouse? I'm sure she would agree.

Seeking the benefits of being a disloyal spouse come at such a high price that only a fool would even consider them, which is to say we have quite a few of those in society. There are much more honorable ways of doing anything that you could get out of being disloyal. If you wish to seek another partner, you should NOT be married! If you truly wish to honor and respect your spouse, you should NOT be cheating!

This is part of the wedding vows and too many people take them for granted these days. If you willingly betray your wedding vows (by cheating), then you do not deserve to be married so you might as well stop looking.

joepole · 04-03-2007, 10:30 AM

Lots of people feel very differently about it than you, which is why you can't make blanket statements like "no good can ever come."

>There are much more honorable ways of doing anything that you could get out of being disloyal. If you wish to seek another partner, you should NOT be married! If you truly wish to honor and respect your spouse, you should NOT be cheating!

None of those things have any bearing on whether or not good can come from cheating on your partner.

04-02-2007, 11:26 AM	#1
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04-02-2007, 06:05 PM	#9
Al Swearengen Advanced Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 849 Rep Power: 247	Maybe now these two boys will see that she wasnt worth it. Nobody is! I speak from experience, and I'm here to tell ya nobody is worth it! Hear me now and believe me later when I tell ya that nobody is worth it. Now shes takin a dirtnap. The cuckolded husband is the real victim here. __________________ Molon Labe!

04-03-2007, 07:15 AM	#11
Isaac-Saxxon SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 4,421 Rep Power: 318	Oh Joe !!! You have put your foot in it now How would you feel if you caught your wife trying out a new husband just to see if you are up to par ?? Isaac

04-02-2007, 01:18 PM	#2
AnimeSpirit SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Nowhere Age: 41 Posts: 1,659 Rep Power: 261	Death is certainly a high price for infidelity. It just goes to show you that NOTHING good can come out of being an disloyal spouse. If, for whatever reason, you can't remain perfectly loyal to your partner, then you should NOT be married.

04-02-2007, 01:49 PM	#3
joepole SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,606 Rep Power: 259	Lots of good can come out of being a disloyal spouse. You could, for instance, meet somebody better.

04-02-2007, 04:09 PM	#5
joepole SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,606 Rep Power: 259	No, I would not condone that, but I can recognize that lots of good can come from being a disloyal spouse. What if I sort of like my wife, but start cheating on her and find a woman I really, really love? Wouldn't that be some good coming from being a disloyal spouse?

04-02-2007, 04:40 PM	#7
rhertz SBLive! Veteran Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 2,834 Rep Power: 294	I think that if someone wants to "cheat" they should first get a divorce then wait at least 3-6 months or more before diving into new relationship. There would be two benefits to this. First it would lessen the impact on family members as Issac points out, and two, it might make something think twice in the future about making the very same mistake twice. It also might make someone think twice before pulling a trigger.

04-03-2007, 08:23 AM	#12
Texasbelle SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: In the woods Posts: 1,819 Rep Power: 265	You know marriages are not like shoes. You don't get to keep trying them on until you find a good fit. And then you don't get to through one away once you think it is a little worn, or you dont like something about it. Marriage is/should be for life. I do know, having experienced it, that there are circumstances which warrant divorce but to think you can take it lightly is absurd, irresponsible, and heartless.

04-03-2007, 09:33 AM	#13
joepole SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,606 Rep Power: 259	Why would I care of my wife found out that I said that it is possible for good to come out of being a disloyal spouse? I'm sure she would agree.

04-03-2007, 10:30 AM	#15
joepole SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,606 Rep Power: 259	Lots of people feel very differently about it than you, which is why you can't make blanket statements like "no good can ever come." >There are much more honorable ways of doing anything that you could get out of being disloyal. If you wish to seek another partner, you should NOT be married! If you truly wish to honor and respect your spouse, you should NOT be cheating! None of those things have any bearing on whether or not good can come from cheating on your partner.

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