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LateNight 06-03-2007 12:39 AM

Brain.. certainly we should all try to lead by example etc etc.. but when it comes to our kids safety, ALL BETS ARE OFF.

rhertz 06-03-2007 01:01 AM

Brainsmasher has no children, yet he is loaded with advice and judgement for those who do.

Brainsmasher has no religion, yet he is loaded with advice and judgement for those who do.

What else doesn't Brainsmasher have?

Texasbelle 06-03-2007 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Isabella
Okay here is my 2 cents worth...after Columbine; the “experts” advised parents to spy on their children. We were told to know everything that goes on with your children. Afterwards, I started searching my child's room almost weekly. He had NetNanny on his computer, so I would check the log quite often. We never had any trouble with our child. We tried to set a good example for him by not doing the following things, drinking, smoking, and using profanity. He never knew I checked his room out. You have to stay a step ahead of your children, so if they do something wrong, you can address it immediately.

Tbelle, my child is almost finished with college and My Space was not around when he was living at home, but if it was I would certainly check it out. His NetNanny would shut it down if bad language was on the page. LOL. Perhaps you need to install something like it on your computer. It works very well.

Isabella, that was a great post! I do have a program installed! Brain read a whole lot more into what I said that is so incorrect, but if he wants to be that stupid and make such assumptions about false identities, then ASSume away! He will never be on the same page as the rest of us. He is what he is. I will do my job as a parent and ensure that my children are safe and well behaved. I can't help it if Brain doesn't get it.

Texasbelle 06-03-2007 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by rhertz
Brainsmasher has no children, yet he is loaded with advice and judgement for those who do.

Brainsmasher has no religion, yet he is loaded with advice and judgement for those who do.

What else doesn't Brainsmasher have?

A Brain!!!!!:laugh: :rotflol: :rotflol: :laugh:

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by LateNight
Brain.. certainly we should all try to lead by example etc etc.. but when it comes to our kids safety, ALL BETS ARE OFF.


And I'm certainly not suggesting you SHOULDN'T go out of your way to protect your children. My point is that lies and manipulation are not, never have been, and never will be the answer.

Did you ASK your children to LET you monitor their MySpace activity or has the trust between you two ALREADY diminished to a point where you expect them to lie and deception was your only alternative?

They're your children, Teabag, they learn FROM you, not in spite of you, and to imply that being a parent or religion plays any role in one's level of intelligence shows just what kind of STUPID **** you're teaching them in addition to how to manipulate the ones they "love".

Texasbelle 06-04-2007 07:11 AM

Listen up *********, there is a difference between parenting and manipulation. Learn it. You know I guess none of us never really thought about the reason why you aren't a parent. There has to be two willing people to engage, ya know? Who in the heck would be willing with someone like you with that attitude?????????

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Isabella
Okay here is my 2 cents worth...after Columbine; the “experts” advised parents to spy on their children. We were told to know everything that goes on with your children. Afterwards, I started searching my child's room almost weekly. He had NetNanny on his computer, so I would check the log quite often. We never had any trouble with our child. We tried to set a good example for him by not doing the following things, drinking, smoking, and using profanity. He never knew I checked his room out. You have to stay a step ahead of your children, so if they do something wrong, you can address it immediately.

Tbelle, my child is almost finished with college and My Space was not around when he was living at home, but if it was I would certainly check it out. His NetNanny would shut it down if bad language was on the page. LOL. Perhaps you need to install something like it on your computer. It works very well.


Seems to me IF you don't know your child well enough to know that he's using drugs, OR has access to firearms, OR is extremely anti-social, then maybe NEGLECT is what's wrong with the boy in the first damn place!

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Texasbelle
Listen up *********, there is a difference between parenting and manipulation. Learn it. You know I guess none of us never really thought about the reason why you aren't a parent. There has to be two willing people to engage, ya know? Who in the heck would be willing with someone like you with that attitude?????????

Exactly right, and you manipulate your children by lies and deception. I'm not a parent BY CHOICE, because of ****-up's like you. It's called birth control and responsibility.

Get it yet, stupid? I'm relating real life experience to you, not opinion. SPYING is the enemy of trust.

Texasbelle 06-04-2007 07:33 AM

First you have to have the opportunity to use that birth control don't ya?

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Texasbelle
First you have to have the opportunity to use that birth control don't ya?


At least MY children don't have to live with a lying, manipulative *****.

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Texasbelle
Isabella, that was a great post! I do have a program installed! Brain read a whole lot more into what I said that is so incorrect, but if he wants to be that stupid and make such assumptions about false identities, then ASSume away! He will never be on the same page as the rest of us. He is what he is. I will do my job as a parent and ensure that my children are safe and well behaved. I can't help it if Brain doesn't get it.

Ok, I'll give you that one. I AM operating on an assumption here.

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Originally Posted by Texasbelle
How do I get to look at their space? I can never tell my secret in public on the board!!!;) But let's suffice it to say the kids should pay more attention to who they make their "friend"!:laugh:

You wanna clarify that statement, or cut the bull****, because I'm pretty sure that means you are using an account other than your own, which complies with the MySpace terms of service, to spy on them....

Isaac-Saxxon 06-04-2007 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by BrainSmashR
Seems to me IF you don't know your child well enough to know that he's using drugs, OR has access to firearms, OR is extremely anti-social, then maybe NEGLECT is what's wrong with the boy in the first damn place!

Brain sounds like he is describing himself here :rolleyes: I can see your parents did not know you very well you social outcast. :nono:

Isabella 06-04-2007 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by BrainSmashR
Seems to me IF you don't know your child well enough to know that he's using drugs, OR has access to firearms, OR is extremely anti-social, then maybe NEGLECT is what's wrong with the boy in the first damn place!

Brainy, I know my son very well. He has a 3.9 grade average and this is his senior year in college. He was valedictorian when he graduated from high school. He will be going to pharmacy school or medical school. He and his wonderful sweet innocent beautiful girlfriend are at my home everyday. I can tell what he does, also by his choice in friends. There are no tattoos and piercings on these kids. They are interested in their education and working out in the gym. My child is definitely not neglected or anti-social! You only wish you could have the life my son has!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You noticed that pretty new truck lately?

joepole 06-04-2007 11:02 AM

>He never knew I checked his room out.

Yes, he did.

rhertz 06-04-2007 12:29 PM

Joepole I bet if you had a myspace page, it would be plain with text only, no pictures. :p (ducking) *jk*

Isabella 06-04-2007 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by joepole
>He never knew I checked his room out.

Yes, he did.

How do you know Mr. smarty pants? So what if he did!

Isaac-Saxxon 06-04-2007 01:18 PM

I must say Joe wears some very smart pants :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

joepole 06-04-2007 01:46 PM

If he didn't then he was retarded. If he was retarded he wouldn't have been valedictorian unless he went to Green Oaks or Southwood.

Texasbelle 06-04-2007 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by BrainSmashR
Ok, I'll give you that one. I AM operating on an assumption here.



You wanna clarify that statement, or cut the bull****, because I'm pretty sure that means you are using an account other than your own, which complies with the MySpace terms of service, to spy on them....

Ok Brain since you think you are so smart did you ever think that I might have friends with children who have made them their friend? Does that help you out?

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Isabella
Brainy, I know my son very well. He has a 3.9 grade average and this is his senior year in college. He was valedictorian when he graduated from high school. He will be going to pharmacy school or medical school. He and his wonderful sweet innocent beautiful girlfriend are at my home everyday. I can tell what he does, also by his choice in friends. There are no tattoos and piercings on these kids. They are interested in their education and working out in the gym. My child is definitely not neglected or anti-social! You only wish you could have the life my son has!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You noticed that pretty new truck lately?

Unlike you and your offspring, material possession aren't what make my word go around and you're an even bigger idiot that I thought if you believe I have EVER wished to be as shallow of a person as you. Similar to Isaac, I understand there are MUCH more important things to worry about in this world than what some kid's Mommy bought him. You want to impress me? Try mowing your own grass and losing some weight....anybody can write a check.

BTW, your example involved the Columbine children, NOT your own, hence my reasoning of not knowing someone was on drugs, had access to firearms, and was extremely antisocial which EVERYONE except the parents apparently, already knew about the Columbine kids...

try paying attention occasionally....

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Isabella
How do you know Mr. smarty pants? So what if he did!

So now he KNOWS he has to hide stuff from his nosy Mother. YOUR DIRECT ACTIONS causing him to participate in questionable activity.

EXACTLY what I'm trying to tell the other mental midget.

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Texasbelle
Ok Brain since you think you are so smart did you ever think that I might have friends with children who have made them their friend? Does that help you out?


So you are spying on your children with an alternate personality.

What part of that didn't you get the first go around, stupid?

Did you EVER ask your children to let you see their MySpace account or have your actions already crumbled their level of trust in you beyond that point?

Isaac-Saxxon 06-04-2007 05:21 PM

I can not believe that stupid ass would think that your kids will just tell you every little thing they do ? duh ???? Hard love requires work and trust well that can be taken out of context. This world of Internet is not the same one we came up in and to know the facts is the best way to go. Yes I will agree now that "thank GOD" he has no children and can not even have a clue as to what he is talking about. Brain is a dead end street in more than one way. :rolleyes:

Isabella 06-04-2007 06:08 PM

Isaac, he is the one who is the idiot. His past is not a nice one and I guess he is jealous of those who have achieved more than he has. I will give him some credit, he has turned his life around. Not quite what I would want my son doing, but he is working and I am sure he must be doing a good job at what he does. Still can't understand why he does not go to college and get an education. Brain is not stupid. Material things are not everything, but it does help to be comfortable.

Isabella 06-04-2007 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by BrainSmashR
So now he KNOWS he has to hide stuff from his nosy Mother. YOUR DIRECT ACTIONS causing him to participate in questionable activity.

EXACTLY what I'm trying to tell the other mental midget.

Look, just because you participated in questionable activities does not mean everyone does. I know for a fact my son has not done anything like you did when you were his age. He is too busy getting an education and too ambitious to mess his life up like you did. He has been planning for his future since he was a young boy. My son tells me all the time what a wonderful childhood he had. I must have done something right.
Go bother someone else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Isabella
Isaac, he is the one who is the idiot. His past is not a nice one and I guess he is jealous of those who have achieved more than he has. I will give him some credit, he has turned his life around. Not quite what I would want my son doing, but he is working and I am sure he must be doing a good job at what he does. Still can't understand why he does not go to college and get an education. Brain is not stupid. Material things are not everything, but it does help to be comfortable.


LAF

It really is impossible for you to believe that people making less than 75K a year can not only be happy, but actually enjoy life MORE than someone married with children, huh?

Isabella 06-04-2007 06:27 PM

No I am not saying that.

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Isabella
Look, just because you participated in questionable activities does not mean everyone does. I know for a fact my son has not done anything like you did when you were his age. He is too busy getting an education and too ambitious to mess his life up like you did. He has been planning for his future since he was a young boy. My son tells me all the time what a wonderful childhood he had. I must have done something right.
Go bother someone else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I'm talking about the Columbine kids, not your children you ****ing moron!! You think you'd have figured that out since you know your children aren't on drugs, carrying guns around, and your kids aren't antisocial AND I SAID IT TWICE...but I guess you're either to god damn stupid to listen or to hard headed to understand and THAT'S why you throw money at your problems...you're to ****ing stupid to solve them on your own.

Isabella 06-04-2007 06:31 PM

A person should be the best that they can be. If you are highly intelligent, then you should use it. You should take that as a compliment.

Isabella 06-04-2007 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by BrainSmashR
I'm talking about the Columbine kids, not your children you ****ing moron!! You think you'd have figured that out since you know your children aren't on drugs, carrying guns around, and your kids aren't antisocial AND I SAID IT TWICE...but I guess you're either to god damn stupid to listen or to hard headed to understand and THAT'S why you throw money at your problems...you're to ****ing stupid to solve them on your own.

Watch your language dear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It sounded to me like you were referring to my child and my parenting. Well, if you truly were not then excuse me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Isabella
A person should be the best that they can be. If you are highly intelligent, then you should use it. You should take that as a compliment.

Likewise, even an idiot could understand the future behind being the only man in the building under 50 when I took the job.

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Isabella
Watch you language dear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It sounded to me like you were referring to my child and my parenting. Well, if you truly were not then excuse me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I said it twice. Try reading sometimes BEFORE you form your opinions. It's what separates the truly intelligent from those who just think they are....

Isabella 06-04-2007 06:38 PM

Okay brainy, end of story. I've got to go earn some more money. :arrow: :shoethrow: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

BrainSmashR 06-04-2007 06:38 PM

If you had a REAL job, you'd be off work already.

Or some real morals, then you'd be finished with work before playing on the internet.

but I guess it's hard to keep your own **** in one pile when you're so busy tending to everyone else's business, huh?

Isaac-Saxxon 06-04-2007 07:15 PM

Isabella it sure looks like you got ole brainy's goat in your barn :laugh: :laugh: ole brainy seems to have advise for everyone else but he sure does not want to listen to any :rolleyes: How about some of them french fried taters there ABBY :laugh:

Isabella 06-04-2007 07:58 PM

Aww Isaac, the boy can't help himself. I am just thankful he is not my son.

piemaker720 06-04-2007 08:00 PM

Well, I don't know about anyone else but I am really getting tired of Brain's language. If all he can say is dirty words he needs to keep them to hisself.:mad:

Isabella 06-04-2007 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by BrainSmashR
If you had a REAL job, you'd be off work already.

Or some real morals, then you'd be finished with work before playing on the internet.

but I guess it's hard to keep your own **** in one pile when you're so busy tending to everyone else's business, huh?

Hey stupid boy, I was not at work earlier. I don't need a REAL job. I earn money when I want to. My husband is the main bread winner in our family. I do a lot of free work to help those who need my services. Okay, this is the last time I answer you on this thread. Quit acting so dumb so I don't have to reply to you. I have better things to do with my time.

piemaker720 06-04-2007 08:20 PM

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Texasbelle 06-04-2007 10:36 PM

Oh Piemaker, thank you. I need that !!!!!! How true it is!!!!

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