Woman killed in shootout between her husband and lover
 

A Shreveport woman was killed when she got caught in the middle of a shootout between her lover and her estranged husband

Death is certainly a high price for infidelity. It just goes to show you that NOTHING good can come out of being an disloyal spouse. If, for whatever reason, you can't remain perfectly loyal to your partner, then you should NOT be married.

Lots of good can come out of being a disloyal spouse. You could, for instance, meet somebody better.

Are you saying that you would honestly condone your wife cheating on you because she is looking for someone better than you? I would take it as a personal insult in more ways than one.

Let's take a hypothetical couple to mind for a moment. Let's say the wife began cheating on her husband because she was interested in looking for someone new. This act is despicable, nuf said! Why? Because if you are interested in looking for someone new, then you should NOT be in a serious relationship with someone else, much less married. When you commit to a relationship, you are agreeing to be loyal. However, let's say this nameless wife did find someone new who was, by any definition of the term, better. How can this new partner be sure that his newfound love would be more loyal to him when she now has a history of infidelity?

No, I would not condone that, but I can recognize that lots of good can come from being a disloyal spouse. What if I sort of like my wife, but start cheating on her and find a woman I really, really love? Wouldn't that be some good coming from being a disloyal spouse?

Joe does your wife read these post ?
 

I should say are you married and does your wife read these post ? I know that would throw gas on the fire at my house :eek: Big TIME :eek: I have heard it said that when a married couple breaks up that it effects 25-50 people on both sides of the family and the kids pay a very high price. Someone would be better off with their porn and Miss Rosie than cheating on a mate. :clap:
Isaac

I think that if someone wants to "cheat" they should first get a divorce then wait at least 3-6 months or more before diving into new relationship. There would be two benefits to this. First it would lessen the impact on family members as Issac points out, and two, it might make something think twice in the future about making the very same mistake twice. It also might make someone think twice before pulling a trigger.

Perhaps, but this pursuit proved fatal for the woman in this article. I wouldn't think it was worth it. The dishonor, the pain, and in this case death.

Maybe now these two boys will see that she wasnt worth it. Nobody is! I speak from experience, and I'm here to tell ya nobody is worth it! Hear me now and believe me later when I tell ya that nobody is worth it. Now shes takin a dirtnap. The cuckolded husband is the real victim here.

There is more than one victim in this case. There are three families that are victimized now, but one more so than the others. Somebody has lost a daughter, sister, niece, granddaughter, and perhaps a mother. It was not worth it for anyone to cheat and it never is.

JoePole, I find myself hoping that your wife finds this board if you truly believe what you have typed. And once she reads it, I hope her wrath has no measure for you. If you don't like her, leave. Walk now. SHE DESERVES THE OPPORTUNITY TO FIND SOMEONE BETTER THAN YOU.:mad:

Oh Joe !!! You have put your foot in it now
 

How would you feel if you caught your wife trying out a new husband just to see if you are up to par ?? :eek: :eek:
Isaac

You know marriages are not like shoes. You don't get to keep trying them on until you find a good fit. And then you don't get to through one away once you think it is a little worn, or you dont like something about it. Marriage is/should be for life. I do know, having experienced it, that there are circumstances which warrant divorce but to think you can take it lightly is absurd, irresponsible, and heartless.

Why would I care of my wife found out that I said that it is possible for good to come out of being a disloyal spouse? I'm sure she would agree.

Seeking the benefits of being a disloyal spouse come at such a high price that only a fool would even consider them, which is to say we have quite a few of those in society. There are much more honorable ways of doing anything that you could get out of being disloyal. If you wish to seek another partner, you should NOT be married! If you truly wish to honor and respect your spouse, you should NOT be cheating!

This is part of the wedding vows and too many people take them for granted these days. If you willingly betray your wedding vows (by cheating), then you do not deserve to be married so you might as well stop looking.

Lots of people feel very differently about it than you, which is why you can't make blanket statements like "no good can ever come."

>There are much more honorable ways of doing anything that you could get out of being disloyal. If you wish to seek another partner, you should NOT be married! If you truly wish to honor and respect your spouse, you should NOT be cheating!

None of those things have any bearing on whether or not good can come from cheating on your partner.

LOL..ya mean like "people who play the lottery are not financially savvy", like THAT blanket statement? Lots of people felt differently about that, too, but it didnt stop ya from paintin em all with the broad brush, did it laddie?

Oh laddie !! Al your killing me
 

I see young laddie just a painting with his one stroke brush. By the way laddie I see on the news this evening you can now get your porn on high def DVDs but I guess you new that :D Now laddie you did say you had played the lottery right ?? :laugh:
Isaac

LOL, I saw some news segment on this a couple of weeks back. Apparently, some of the "porn stars" aren't too happy about this whole "Hi-Def" business.. Turns out, they don't look so good in High Definition :)

The grass is never greener on the other side of the fence or in HD!:D

>LOL..ya mean like "people who play the lottery are not financially savvy", like THAT blanket statement?

That would be a bad blanket statement, which is why I didn't make it. Find that thread and bring it back, it disappeared off my "new threads" page and I didn't know where it was. I found some good stats about people that play the lottery, I'll post it there.

That's ok, I got right here! :D You know the forum search feature works wonders.

http://www.shreveport.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1003

Why, thank you Anime...bless your resourcefulness! Sure looks like a blanket statement to me.:rolleyes:

Now who has the blanket over their head ?
 

Joe your turn to crawfish out of this one :laugh: I think Sir Al has you nailed on this one. FYI I have played the lottery a few times when it was new and I lost as the odds would have it just like I do when I try to go win at the casino so don't feel bad joe. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Isaac

I too have played the lottery before, but it is still no indication how good I am with money. I'm a frequent investor and I wrote my own budget management system. And I can tell you EXACTLY where every cent of my last 3 paychecks went.

I play powerball occationally. The difference is that I hope NOT to win. :D This way, my chance of loosing is less than getting struck by lightning! I win every time I play! I get my dollar's worth and feel lucky my life will remain the same. If I ever did win, I'm sure it would leave my life in ruins. I couldn't handle $100M which might easily lead to divorce, family feuds, etc. I would have to build my wife a new closet the size of a small mansion just for all the shoes she would buy.

I'd manage! :D

Anime all that money would kick your butt !
 

Everything changes in a twinkle of a eye :eek:

Hmm, seems Joe has chosen NOT to respond...wonder what that could mean?

Maybe case closed for the YOUNG man
 

Could be working it out with a pencil :laugh: There has to be a formula for this problem I am sure it will be tomorrow.
Isaac

Come on Joe, we're all waiting! Just admit you made a "bad blanket statement" and everything'll be copacetic.

Joe does not post at night
 

You two have a long time gap going on. He will be back at work tomorrow with his brush.
Isaac