Dating - Men Choose Pretty Women - Women Are Choosier

[joepole]

>A smart man looks for what's inside the package not the wrappings.

A smart man looks for both. Good looks are just as important as anything else.

Luckily, my wife doesn't follow this plan.

[LSU]

I just hope that one day women can look past this perfectly sculpted face and this body of a greek god and see the inner LSU, i'am very compassionate and have many deep feelings, i am not just some sex object for women to gawk over!

[Texasbelle]

So everybody, for those who are in a relationship ...what did attract you to your spouse first?

[Isaac-Saxxon]

Originally Posted by Texasbelle

So everybody, for those who are in a relationship ...what did attract you to your spouse first?

Olive skin and those big brown eyes oh and that curve yes the female curve.

[Pocahontas]

Blue eyes, nice lips, over the top personality (not all could handle) and intelligence!

[joepole]

Her ability to tolerate me.

[Texasbelle]

For me, it was Mr. Belle's sweet personality, he's tall, and very handsome! He was also willing to take on a single mom with children and love them as his own. It takes a very special man to do that.

[rhertz]

Originally Posted by Pocahontas

Blue eyes, nice lips, over the top personality (not all could handle) and intelligence!

Your description of me is uncanny!

But alas, you probably like blonds over balding brunettes................

[Texasbelle]

Well Rhertz the good news is most all men go thin on top eventually. Your peers will eventually catch up. Some (Neo , Isaac) sooner rather than later!!!

[Pocahontas]

Originally Posted by rhertz

Your description of me is uncanny!

But alas, you probably like blonds over balding brunettes................

Well even though Mr. P is a blonde turning gray I still like it! It matches his goatee!

[LateNight]

Originally Posted by Texasbelle

So everybody, for those who are in a relationship ...what did attract you to your spouse first?

The very first thing.. given it's someone you have not met before.. not someone from school, or someone from work, that you get to know first.. it's usually the looks.. after that, I'd say it has to be personality, compatibility etc.. for the relationship to last. I'm sure I had my eyes on my better half, before she had her eyes on me.. I played the game, and tried to be entertaining as possible .. Then after awhile... it's like the song says "Gettin' up the nerve.... is a man's job"

LOL I know I got the better deal LMAO

[Al Swearengen]

Seems like more often than not, the ones we want, dont want us, and the ones that want us, we dont want. Everyone usually wants what they cant have when it comes to love.

[LateNight]

Originally Posted by Al Swearengen

Seems like more often than not, the ones we want, dont want us, and the ones that want us, we dont want. Everyone usually wants what they cant have when it comes to love.

You love her
But she loves him
And he loves somebody else
Ya just can't win
And so it goes
Till the day you die
This thing they call love
It's gonna make you cry
I've had the blues
The reds and the pinks
One thing's for sure
Love stinks
Love stinks yeah yeah

[rhertz]

Originally Posted by Texasbelle

So everybody, for those who are in a relationship ...what did attract you to your spouse first?

Tbelle, I've been married nearly 25 years, that's a quarter century to one woman and one woman only. Bingo, you hit the bulleye. "Looks" had me like a spell. I was 18, she was 15... She looked like Farrah Faucet Majors. I've been a slave to love ever since.....

Yeah she'd gained a few pounds since then (cough cough) but I can still see the Farrah Faucet every time I see her. However now that I've had a few decades to get to know her, things change. LOL, a couple of kids will do that to ya..... I have found that personality counts for more and more and looks count less and less, especially while I hone my parental skills. In both regards, I do have my standards and limits. But I'm open minded. What was your question?