Internet Pornography, Harmless Fun?

AnimeSpirit · 04-06-2007, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Pocahontas

I am against it too! If you have a significant other why would you need it? Maybe the lonely and the bored are entertained by it?

That's what many of us have been saying all along, myself included. Apparently, though, some members who shall remain nameless think porno is ok even if you're commited to someone and further thinks women who are offended by it shouldn't be. Personally, I would think a woman commited to a man who prefers porn would be deeply offended by it. It would make her feel inadequate and that's just rude.

Texasbelle · 04-06-2007, 08:42 PM

There is another side to this besides the disrespect to your partner when you are involved with pornography. Pornography exploits the women involved in the industry. These are usually impressionable young ladies, many of whom end up drug addicts, etc. Children are often involved in the exploitation of pornography as well. These are somebody's daughters and sisters. It is absolutely disgusting that anyone (Joe) would try to justify the viewing of it.

Pocahontas · 04-06-2007, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by AnimeSpirit

That's what many of us have been saying all along, myself included. Apparently, though, some members who shall remain nameless think porno is ok even if you're commited to someone and further thinks women who are offended by it shouldn't be. Personally, I would think a woman commited to a man who prefers porn would be deeply offended by it. It would make her feel inadequate and that's just rude.

AMEN to that Anime!!! You sound like a very intuitive and sensitive guy!

AnimeSpirit · 04-06-2007, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Pocahontas

AMEN to that Anime!!! You sound like a very intuitive and sensitive guy!

Thanks!

Now if only most women my age actually wanted those qualities, I'd be happy.

rhertz · 04-06-2007, 11:44 PM

I'm not trying to stir the controvery pot, but I do have a question. Do you women think it is ok for a married couple to have a mirror on the wall? (or on the ceiling, LOL, just kidding) My point being that men are "visual" by nature whereas women may focus more on other senses. Is that bad?

AnimeSpirit · 04-07-2007, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by rhertz

I'm not trying to stir the controvery pot, but I do have a question. Do you women think it is ok for a married couple to have a mirror on the wall? (or on the ceiling, LOL, just kidding) My point being that men are "visual" by nature whereas women may focus more on other senses. Is that bad?

I disagree. We are always being accused of being physically sensuous as well. However, this is refers to the nature of the individual's personality, not the nature of man as a whole.

I, for example to the contrary, have a well-rounded esthetic sense due to my appreciation for art, music, dance, and even some poetry. In other words, I recognize beauty in all of my senses (sight, sound, smell, and even intuition). This naturally effects my conduct in interacting with romantic partners.

Isaac-Saxxon · 04-08-2007, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by rhertz

I'm not trying to stir the controvery pot, but I do have a question. Do you women think it is ok for a married couple to have a mirror on the wall? (or on the ceiling, LOL, just kidding) My point being that men are "visual" by nature whereas women may focus more on other senses. Is that bad?

Nothing because I am turning Japanese

"I think I am turning Japanese"
Isaac

Anime has been Japanese

AnimeSpirit · 04-08-2007, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Isaac-Saxxon

Anime has been Japanese

Domo arigato gozaimasu!

Pocahontas · 04-08-2007, 09:18 PM

[quote=rhertz]I'm not trying to stir the controvery pot, but I do have a question. Do you women think it is ok for a married couple to have a mirror on the wall? (or on the ceiling, LOL, just kidding) My point being that men are "visual" by nature whereas women may focus more on other senses. Is that bad?[/QUOTE

In answer to your question I think as long as both partners are agreeable on this why not?? It's completely up to the consenting adults and what they both are comfortable with.

Texasbelle · 04-09-2007, 12:42 AM

I am with Pochontas on this one. It's whatever the couple prefers! Mirrors, etc. BUT I still think pornography exploits a whole lot of people.

Isaac-Saxxon · 04-09-2007, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Texasbelle

I am with Pocahontas on this one. It's whatever the couple prefers! Mirrors, etc. BUT I still think pornography exploits a whole lot of people.

What did a girl do before there where good quality mirrors around. She never knew if she really looked like old mom or not. Mirror, mirror on the celing..................

Isaac

rhertz · 04-09-2007, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Texasbelle

I am with Pochontas on this one. It's whatever the couple prefers! Mirrors, etc. BUT I still think pornography exploits a whole lot of people.

Yes I agree. And no we do not have a mirror in our current bedroom! But back 20+ years ago we did, LOL. Just thinking back is all.

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04-08-2007, 09:18 PM	#9
Pocahontas SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,691 Rep Power: 294	Whatever floats your boat... [quote=rhertz]I'm not trying to stir the controvery pot, but I do have a question. Do you women think it is ok for a married couple to have a mirror on the wall? (or on the ceiling, LOL, just kidding) My point being that men are "visual" by nature whereas women may focus more on other senses. Is that bad?[/QUOTE In answer to your question I think as long as both partners are agreeable on this why not?? It's completely up to the consenting adults and what they both are comfortable with.

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04-06-2007, 08:42 PM	#2
Texasbelle SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: In the woods Posts: 1,819 Rep Power: 287	There is another side to this besides the disrespect to your partner when you are involved with pornography. Pornography exploits the women involved in the industry. These are usually impressionable young ladies, many of whom end up drug addicts, etc. Children are often involved in the exploitation of pornography as well. These are somebody's daughters and sisters. It is absolutely disgusting that anyone (Joe) would try to justify the viewing of it.

04-06-2007, 11:44 PM	#5
rhertz SBLive! Veteran Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 2,834 Rep Power: 316	I'm not trying to stir the controvery pot, but I do have a question. Do you women think it is ok for a married couple to have a mirror on the wall? (or on the ceiling, LOL, just kidding) My point being that men are "visual" by nature whereas women may focus more on other senses. Is that bad?

04-09-2007, 12:42 AM	#10
Texasbelle SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: In the woods Posts: 1,819 Rep Power: 287	I am with Pochontas on this one. It's whatever the couple prefers! Mirrors, etc. BUT I still think pornography exploits a whole lot of people.

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